Nanci Valente returned from time off to celebrate the birth of her third granddaughter to prepare for the burial of six stillborn babies at Resurrection Cemetery on Staten Island.
“I came back to this sad story of six baby burials,” Ms. Valente, the manager of cemetery services and administration at Resurrection, told CNY of a burial that took place in the Guardian Angel section of the cemetery July 26.
“It’s very sad, emotional and touching, but at the same time, they are given a dignified burial, which they otherwise would not get.’’
The burial space, opening and closing of the space for burial and the engraving of the stillborn baby’s name on a communal marker came at no cost to the families. Cardinal Dolan announced the initiative, and several others, in his Catholic New York column earlier this year.
Each of the four archdiocesan cemeteries operated by the Trustees of St. Patrick’s Cathedral—Calvary in Queens, Ascension in Airmont, Gate of Heaven in Hawthorne and Resurrection—is participating in the plan. There is free burial of a deceased person declared indigent by local civil authorities at the St. Francis of Assisi section, as well as burial at a minimal cost of cremated remains in the St. Joseph of Arimathea section, at each of the four cemeteries. Ascension Cemetery’s Sacred Hearts of Jesus and Mary section will be for burials at a reduced cost for families with a letter from the deceased’s pastor stating a Catholic Funeral Mass is scheduled and certifying the family’s limited means.
Cardinal Dolan was responding to concerns expressed by priests, primarily from Hispanic parishes, about the decreasing number of families following Catholic traditions of bereavement and burial because of the costs.
“As your archbishop, I am committed to do all that I can to see that our deceased Catholics receive a Funeral Mass and are buried in a Catholic cemetery. Please keep these various options in mind, which now make Catholic burials in our archdiocesan cemeteries available and affordable to just about everyone,” Cardinal Dolan wrote in his March 2 CNY column.
As of Aug. 10, 38 Guardian Angel burials have occurred in the cemeteries since Cardinal Dolan announced the initiative.
“It’s a wonderful initiative,” said Andrew Nagle, associate managing director for The Trustees of St. Patrick’s Cathedral, which is marking its 200th anniversary in 2017. “We’ve done it for years and years, but now we have an initiative from Cardinal Dolan on it, with the cardinal’s blessing.”
On Staten Island, the wider community has provided support. Public Administrator Anthony Catalano has played a leading role in helping the babies receive a dignified funeral. John V. Scalia Home for Funerals provided baby caskets, nameplates and flowers. The World of Women, an advocacy group for women and children, has fashioned donated christening gowns and wedding dresses into burial garments for the stillborn babies.
“It’s very positive and very strengthening for people in the community to know the Church and the community cares. It gives the community strength and hope,” said Ms. Valente, who with her staff buried 15 stillborn babies in one burial Jan. 5.
“We are here. Our mission is to help the bereaved families and to help the community, whatever their needs may be.’’
Scott Hanley, managing director for the Trustees of St. Patrick’s Cathedral, said he and his staff will continue getting the word out in the coming weeks about Cardinal Dolan’s initiative.
“We’ve talked to a lot of different people and groups about the cardinal’s initiative and handed out brochures,” Hanley said. “We will be out pushing it again in September.”
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